Friday, January 28, 2011

Home Wrecker

Watching the trailers to the upcoming movie "Just Go With It" with Adam Sandler got me thinking about how women are perceived and I guess what some women are willing to do.

So the plot is that this guy wears a wedding ring pretending to be going through a tough relationship with his wife in order to pick up women. Looks like an interesting comedy but do women really go "wedding ring hunting", if so then why?

We get upset when the person we are with cheats on us but I guess there are people who are willing to be the other woman. What do these women find that makes it worth being the other woman? So say that man is not married, like the character in the movie, would the woman be mad he lied? Does she have any right to be mad since she was willing to play the "home wrecker" role?

If the man was really married and she started to get serious feelings, would she except him to leave the marriage? Chances of that happening are slim yet possible...I suppose.

Why not look for someone single for you. Get all the perks of a relationship and get rid of all these secrets. Why look for something that is already taken and just get your own.

I am confused on the concept but some men and women will keep playing these games just as long as there are people who are willing to play. Personally, I am NOT willing to put more energy to be a secret than being in a relationship. I prefer a relationship built on trust and NO games. Call yourself a "playa" all you want, in all games someone has to lose and don't be surprised if it is you.
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