I was watching the movie "he's just not that in to you" the other day and in the beginning it talked about how confusing it is to fall in love. A boy hits you and those are "love taps", yea that's totally confusing. If a person lies it means they care about your feelings. This is insane!
Why can't a person be honest to show they care? I heard somewhere that love is pain and why does it have to be painful? Why can't love be this magical experience where both people are happy at all times? I guess it takes a lot of work to please someone while maintaining your own sanity.
People work hard to keep their relationships and sometimes they succeed and sometimes they fail. Love can hurt because no one wants to fail so we push ourselves to our limits and no one wants to be disappointed if their hard work doesn't pay off.
Can it be simple, easy, and painless? Maybe. While you may have given up on love or you may be a hopeless romantic like me, either way I have learned that love is tough and confusing and I suppose we all just gotta keep working at it.
I wish it was easier but if its worth it then work for it.
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