When your loved ones pass away, many people try to comfort you by letting you know that they are in a better place and this is the time to celebrate their life and to think about all the good times you had with that person.
Grieving the death of a person can be as equal to grieving the death of a relationship with a person. Sometimes relationships end unexpectedly and we are left with many questions but there are times when we just know that it was all coming to an end but denial sets in.
When there is a lot of pain in a relationship there is a sense of relief once that relationship is over and that you can start to live your life without any worries. It hurts to see someone leave your life but it also starts to feel good that you can feel free. You can also remember what was good about that relationship, maybe even learn a lesson or two. People enter and leave our lives for a reason and looking at the silver lining can help remove negative feelings.
There are many people that mean so much to me and I would hate to have them leave my life but sometimes their paths do not include me, no matter how hard we try. Sometimes it’s for the best to move on with your life because you have to trust that they are in a better place in their life.
A lose hurts but it can be for the best. Remember the good times, learn from the challenging times and keep focusing on the future.
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